If God says go...Go! If God says stay...Stay! If your emotions get the better of you tell them to chill.
How will you know if you can't discern what God's will is for any situation if you don't renew your mind...daily?
Go to the Word and pray asking God to show you, to lead you and to guide you so that you know exactly what He wants for you...
"Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect." Romans 12:2