Someone asked me once, "What do you do?" My answer, "I stay home and take care of the kids!" Her reply, "Oh you are JUST a housewife!!!" Anyone who has ever been a stay-at-home mom knows there is no JUST about taking care of children.
I "just" loved my role as mom. I "just" did the very best I could but I also know I "just" didn't do everything right or perfect and as a matter of fact I know I made some mistakes.
We did without the frills of life for me to take care of the children which prompted someone to ask me, "Do you want me to feel sorry for you because I have had so much and you have had so little?" I said, "Oh no, I see what it has done to you. I am fine just as I am!"
Just be the person God wants you to be...whatever that is you cannot go wrong.
"Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward."